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"I said to Hank Williams, 'How lonely does it get?', Hank Williams hasn't answered yet, but I hear him coughing, all night long, he's a hundred floors above me, in the tower of song".

Brilliant essay! That line "This song is too good for you" is one of the greatest things any man has ever said! I hope it's true that he said it!

It is interesting how those most revered of country singers were so willing to be so "desperate", abject, and pleading in their lyrics, and those songs are still so beloved by conservative, macho country audiences. A great Irish songwriter and musician Paul Brady, wrote a song in the early 00's called "The Long Goodbye". The lyrics include a line "No matter how hard I try, you're gonna make me cry". It was later covered by an American country duo Brooks & Dunn, and they insisted on changing the line to "No matter how hard I try, I always make you cry", because they thought the original would make them sound like big sissies!

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George, your insight is so interesting.

I grew up in the south of the USA during the 1960s. Country and pop music were constants in the car and at home with my parents. The music was a result of the Depression of the 1930s and 40s.

My dad used to take me along to taverns sometimes,1960s. I was about the age 7 to 10. In those days, it wasn't swinging clubs with women. It was just men who sat and drank beer. Yeah, once in a while a fight broke out, but it was mostly peaceful, 'Good ol boys' days. In those days there were still separate rooms where the blacks had to drink. Long-gone days, but I remember it.

The jukebox playing country songs sounded so good. Kind of a deep bass sound, it's hard to describe now. Sitting on bar stools were hard men who had grown during the depression. I heard the stories of wondering where the next meal would come from. No shoes in the cold winters. You could see it in their hard faces. Men used to hard manual work, not afraid to work, it was all they knew.

You can hear the longings of such men in Hank Williams' song. Perhaps a woman could take away the hurt of a hard life. But finding out she couldn't. She just makes the pain deeper. Then on to the gal. So it went...

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